The 18 Best Dildos for Every Penetrative Preference, According to Experts and Reviewers

Every one of our round-ups adheres to the 15 Percent Pledge and includes toys for all budgets and bodies. And you better believe we read those product reviews (and test many of the brands IRL) so you don’t have to do it yourself. If you don’t need a suction cup base Inflatable Dildos, then you’ll love this handheld vibrating dildo from Fun Factory , which is extra girthy and complete with a handy loop design for more control. It’s flexible, rechargeable, waterproof, and has six speeds and six patterns—and as a bonus, it’s ever-so-slightly curved for better maneuverability while inside you. Some of the best dildos have suction cup bases that allow them to stay in place during use—a quality especially typical among silicone dildos.

Unlike most products on this list with a single button, the 2-button control pad (image below) made navigating the six thrusting speeds easy. With the portable size and a grippy silicone finish, the Mini Teddy felt cozy on the palm. Aneros Helix Syn Trident’s rounded head also simplified insertion, a big issue, especially for beginners. With a non-vibrating design, anal play newbies and those with extra-sensitive anal sphincters can enjoy the ergonomic piece worry-free.

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The beauty of dildos is that they can look and feel however you want – you don’t just have to stick to what’s possible in the real world. So, if you want a brightly coloured dildo that’s totally smooth or has bumps in just the right places, you can get exactly what you’re looking for with non-phallic dildos. Having a variety of dildo sizes is great as different partners may have different preferences for what feels best to them. And if you’re someone who loves rabbit vibrators, the Vortex Wireless Turbo Rabbit offers the same design as the Turbo Shaft but with an additional clitoral attachment for added dual pleasure.

You could always opt for more intricate designs like corkscrews and ridges once you get used to it. Ultimately, it’s best to use your own judgement to determine what kind of sensations you want to get from your dildo, and choose one that most closely matches your personal preferences. We stand together at Pride to connect—and through that connection, we access joy, love, and pleasure. Sexologist Carol Queen, PhD, shares her history and explores how Pride celebrates Queer joy while powerfully confronting shame with strength, visibility, and community. Perhaps the fantasy expressed by this dog dildo has already given the answer.